My wife Shereena is so beautiful inside and out😁

My wife Shereena is so beautiful inside and out😁In the past 18 months we have suffered the loss of her own mother, two stillborn babies after she carried them for 6 months, and even two job losses for myself.We have gone thru sleepless crying nights, but we’ve also received counseling, and experienced tons of love, compassion, and support from saints, family, and friends.YAH brought us out! Without a doubt!My wife could have used these consecutive heart-wrenching losses to get bitter but instead she’s chosen to get better! She’s so beautiful 😁Proverbs 31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.Recently the Spirit has moved her to start sharing her testimonies of growth in obedience and understanding of the Scriptures these past few years, and she has been obedient to it.She usually tries to focus on family ministry instead of public ministry. But through prophetic dreams Yah made it clear to her that she was to make time to write and minister even while feeding and caring for 5 children, homeschooling, and keeping our house and garden.It’s the PRESS that squeezes the OIL out of the anointed olive. We lMore obedience produces more love. Here are her recent writings. I hope they are a blessing to your spiritual eyes:Husbands Crying Husband Wants Chilldren 1: RUN FROM the PROGRESSION of SIN! CHURCH OF JEZEBEL FROM HEAVEN WANTS TO DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE Does the Spirit of Jezebel Manifest? I BELIEVE I’M HEBREW I Cover My Head When In the Assembly of Saints GRAVEN IMAGES OF ANIMALS AND PEOPLE THINGS IN LOVE AND FOR HIS GLORY; A TESTIMONY OF INFANT LOSS AND THE FAITHFULNESS OF GOD

Father to the Fatherless: Restoring All Things!

YAHUAH is a Father to the Fatherless!

Many of us have experienced different degrees of fatherlessness that has caused us to suffer loss in our souls… but God has sent the Spirit of Elijah to confront Idolatry, destroy Rebellion, rebuild True Worship, and make way for YAHSHUA aka JESUS to bring HEALING, DELIVERANCE, SALVATION, AND RESTORATION!

We as the Body of Christ must have COMPASSION on the Fatherless, but we must not FOLLOW after the fatherless or DWELL in our pain & rebellion.

We ALL must Forgive our earthly fathers, allow our hearts to Heal, and Learn how to follow our Father in Heaven, as dear children. Only YAH is the Father of Spirits, and the Giver of every good and perfect gift!

Get to KNOW your ABBA FATHER in Heaven!


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Father to the Fatherless: RESTORE YOUR ❤️ HEART!

Father to the Fatherless: RESTORE YOUR 💪🏾💪🏾SEXUAL PURITY and PURPOSE!

Father to the Fatherless: RESTORE 🙌🏾🙌🏾 HIS HOLY NAME!

Father to the Fatherless: RESTORE YOUR 🧠📖 LOGICAL INTEGRITY!


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GODLY WOMEN: When to Keep Silent, and When to Speak – Authoritative Doctrine vs Prayer & Prophesying

Yes, Jesus spoke with women.
But Jesus chose 12 male disciples to be apostolic elders.

Yes, Paul and Apollos ministered with female apostles and prophetesses, but they were not appointed as elders in congregations.

Yes, many Godly women served as deaconesses in congregations, but none were appointed as elders/overseers (2 John 1:1).

Everything that Paul said – Jesus DID First!

Because Paul got everything directly from Jesus Himself!

Paul had to spell things out because he was speaking to Gentiles that didn’t know Hebrew culture.

Jesus first demonstrated in real life the exact same things that Paul tried to explain in the Greek language.

There’s two types of speaking in ministry:
Authoritative Doctrine: setting kingdom boundaries and LOGOS guidelines.
Prophesying: praying, testifying, singing, praising, sharing RHEMA prophetic words.

When women are commanded to prophesy or teach:
1 Corinthians 11:5 – Prophesy under authority, while demonstrating the sign of authority in congregations (headcovering).
Acts 21:9 – Phillip’s daughters did prophesy under the order of their father.
Acts 18:26 – Acquila and Priscilla did help Apollos privately.
Titus 2:4 – Older women are commanded to teach younger women to enjoy husband and children.

When women are commanded to be silent:
1 Cor 14:34-35- Silence in congregations, not setting doctrine or questioning authoritative doctrines of overseers.
1 Timothy 2:12-14 – Women cannot set authoritative didactic doctrine, or be an elder. Women must follow overseers instead of usurping authority.

Authoritative Boundaries:

  • Scriptures
  • 10 Commandments
  • Kingdom Gospel: Repent, Believe, Be Baptized, Filled with Holy Ghost
  • New Covenant Ordinances Under Messiah’s Authority (better than Moses and Abraham Hebrews 8:13)

Out of Bounds Examples:

  • Hath God said? Questioning obedience. (Genesis 3).
  • Lawlessness – Violating the 10.
  • You must be circumcised, keep feasts (Acts 15:24).
  • Following apocrypha, cunningly devised, profane fables (1 Timothy 4:7, 2 Peter 1:16).
  • Disregarding Congregational Ordinances (1 Corinthians 11:1-2, 14:34-36)

This world is MESSED UP because Eve went out of bounds!

  • Eve was deceived by a serpent voice to question obedience to the Commandment.
  • Adam refused to protect the boundaries God set.
  • He wanted the woman to like him, he didn’t want to correct her.

1 Timothy 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

Creation Harmony happens when Women know when to keep silent and when to speak!

Creation Protection happens when men know when NOT to be passive and silent but when to speak!

Defeating Satan’s Strategic Game Plan

Disorder has been satan’s most effective tool ever since Eve & Adam (see what I did there🙃)From the Beginning, Satan’s Game Plan is Simple:1. Get Eve to Question the Word of God in her mind.
2. Hope that Adam doesn’t protect Eve from Satans lies.
3. Watch Eve’s sexual attractiveness influence Adam to obey Satan instead of obeying God’s Commandments.

  • This whole plan is destroyed if Adam refuses to let the Snake speak to his wife.
  • Satan’s whole strategy is destroyed if Adam washes his wife in the Word of God.
  • Satan’s whole plan is destroyed if Adam refuses to obey his wife over God.

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:IN THE CONGREGATION:1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

3D Graven Images of Animals and People

When I was a young adult reading the word of God and trying to mature in my walk with Christ, I can remember reading the second commandment in Deuteronomy, which states: Thou shalt not make thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the waters beneath the earth: (Deut. 5:8). I can remember pondering that and being astonished. I wondered why Christians had graven images of people and animals if the Bible clearly stated we are not supposed to? However, I casted off my concerns, trusting that if this were true, my pastor and the mature saints around me would have taught me about it.

Fast forward about 16 years, I got married and God blessed my husband and I with five beautiful children (so far). We love and serve God, abstain from ungodly music and entertainment, teach our children the word of God, worship and praise God in our home, yet there was spiritual darkness in our house. Like my mother, I have the gift of prophetic dreaming. And over the years I have had several dreams about demons in our house. Many times I prayed through the house, speaking the word, singing praising, casting things out. Dreams of demons in the house kept coming.

Over the past 10 years, my husband and I have been on the fast track of revelation. God is continually feeding us, and opening our eyes to things in HIS Word and what they really mean, instead of how we chose to interpret them. Our Father God, has us in a constant process of pruning, correcting, teaching and training. He is so faithful to complete the work He has begun in all of us (Philippians 1:6). The people we are now, is a far cry from who we were when we first got married.

Towards the end of 2017 God began to change and prune us again. We had begun to learn about the congregational ordinances outlined in 1 Corinthians 11. Learning that men should keep their heads uncovered and women should keep their heads covered when assembling with the saints for worship. You can read my testimony about that here (Why I Cover My Head in the Assembly of Saints).

For some reason, covering my head in worship when gathered with saints, was very difficult for me and I went through a long deliverance process to be able to obey, and cover my head in services, with a joyful heart. We were also exploring what the bible means about women keeping silent in the churches, and not usurping authority over a man (1 Timothy 2:12). To be honest, this was an extremely difficult time for me personally. The things we were exploring in scripture was vastly different than anything I was ever taught growing up. I knew there were many churches that believed some of these things, but I was never part of any church that did. I was reeling in my spirit man.

Then my husband came to me and told me he had learned something that would change our lives again. I braced myself, I knew it was something serious. After some time we finally sat down together so he could share the information with me. He shared with me that statues, carvings and toys in the shape of animals or humans, are considered by God to be graven images. Historically we are taught that bowing to the images is sin, but the bible clearly says not to make for ourselves, keep OR bow down to these images.

Exodus 20:Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth.

What could I say? There was no rebuttal, no argument. The scripture was clear. It clearly states not to make a graven image or any likeness…basically don’t make an idol or any likeness of living things. Although this seemed like it would be hard to do, I remembered that this is what I read and understood 16 years earlier, but had casted off. Here I was, back at the same conclusion God tried to show me back then.

There are times in a disciple’s life when there is a fork in the road. A time when you are faced not with mere opinion, but the sheer word of God. Do you walk away, and ignore the very words of God who you serve? Or do you allow the word to cut you, convict you and change your life forever?

Option A would afford you the comfort of not changing, keeping everything the same, familiar. But, it could also bring spiritual demotion, fruitlessness, or at worst, damnation for eternity in the end. Disobedience is as the sin of witchcraft (1 Samuel 15:23).

Option B would force you to change what you believe, do and think, and would undoubtedly set you apart from most everyone else, who does not believe or are not willing to believe.

Option B would bring total discomfort and social awkwardness, but obedience would mean a giant leap forward on the narrow road of righteousness that leads to life. What road do you choose?

Honesty, all I could think about was my children. I could throw away my nick-nacks in the image of animals and people, no problem. But asking a group of children all under 10 years old, to walk their toys to the trash, was a hard load to bear emotionally. My husband and I talked and wrestled with the issue on our couch as our children slept one night. I felt that an adult can reason and see the benefit in sacrificing and doing something difficult for a greater good. But I was not so sure my children would know how to see the benefits in this sacrifice at their ages.

At the end of the conversation between my husband and I, it was clear what we had to do. Teaching the children early that following Christ means laying your life down, seemed to be one of the most precious gifts we could give them. Teaching them that following and obeying God is in action, not sentiment, is a treasure that will carry them. The decision was made, the images had to go. Obedience to Christ is worth far more than images made with the hands of men.

One day we called the children to the family room and asked the readers to get their bibles and all to sit down. My husband led them in reading scripture. We read Exodus 20:4-6, Deuteronomy 4:15-18, Deuteronomy 7:25-26, Romans 1:23, and 1 Corinthians 12:1-2. We simply read them and explained what graven images were. Not mentioning toys, just explaining what a graven image was biblically.

After we read the scriptures my oldest immediately said, without prompting, “So, we have to throw our toys away”? The scriptures were so clear to him, he immediately made the connection. That gave my heart such peace. To know that the Word on this topic was clear enough for a 7 year old to understand, and that the older ones could understand that it was the word of God, not just mommy and daddy’s word, gave me such comfort.

We want to lead our children in the ways of God, not our ways. We answered him and said yes, we have to throw away the toys in the image of people or animals. We explained to him we initially thought that commandment was instructing us not to bow down to graven images, but God had shown us it actually commands us not to make, keep or bow down to anything in the likeness of any creeping thing in heaven, the earth or sea.

We could see deep emotions building up inside of the children. The reality of throwing away some of their most precious toys and possessions was sinking in, and the tears started to roll. Many of these toys come from their grandparents, aunts, and uncle. To be an example, Esosa and I went first. We went through the house and gathered all of our graven images, I had more than Esosa, he never really liked images to begin with.

In front of the children I talked about each of the images I was throwing away, and I mentioned to them how special each of them had been to me. I told them that following and obeying the word of God was much more precious to me than these images made by men. I threw each of them in the trash in front of the children. Then came their turn. Sobbing they went and gathered toys and brought them to the trash. By this time we were all crying. Who enjoys seeing their children in pain?

They gathered toys and threw them in the trash for a while, they had so many toys. Crying, weeping, sobbing. We cried with them and did our best to comfort them. We felt it was important for them to throw the toys away themselves, as opposed to us just doing it for them. It was important to us that they practice obeying the Word on their own. When it was all finished we cuddled with them on the couch, and answered many more questions. It was a hard day. But, obedience to Christ and leading them to set their eyes on things above, will give them a far greater reward than the temporary comfort from toys in childhood.

Living in the day and age that we live in – we understand that throwing away graven images is not a one time event. But it was the beginning of a journey of obedience for our children. When we did this, Esosa and I talked about how important it would be for us to give our children continued support, answers and encouragement as they walked this out. We knew they would continue to have lots of questions as they grow in understanding, watching other children play with toys and wondering why they cannot. Although they understood why, and agreed that following God is more important, they still have to work through their feelings. And that is ok. We are here for them, God is here for them to strengthen us all as we draw close to Him.  

With so many toys all over the house it literally took months to get rid of all the images. We did a big purge the first day, throwing away everything we found. Then over time, we would find images we had missed, and throw them away or the children would bring them to us and we would throw them away together.

My sons and I would also have dreams of where idols were hidden in the house. God gave a few dreams like that. We looked in the places in the house we saw in the dreams, sure enough there would be a left over toy or trinket in the likeness of a living creature in that spot and we would throw it away.

Also, after we threw away the images, the dreams I was having about our house being filled with demons stopped. So, this issue was confirmed biblically and prophetically.

Many will not agree with us, but that is fine – we do not seek your approval. Rather we seek the approval of the one Who is, Who was, and Who is to come, the Lord Jesus. He comes quickly and His reward is with Him to give to every man according to his works. Come Quickly Lord Jesus (Revelations 22).

P.S. The Spirit of God also gave two of my sons and I three separate dreams connecting graven images AND idolatry to a spirit of violence… but instead of giving the dreams I’ll just give you these Scriptures that confirmed them:

Ezekiel 7:20 As for the beauty of his ornament, he set it in majesty: but they made the images of their abominations and of their detestable things therein: therefore have I set it far from them.

21 And I will give it into the hands of the strangers for a prey, and to the wicked of the earth for a spoil; and they shall pollute it.

22 My face will I turn also from them, and they shall pollute my secret place: for the robbers shall enter into it, and defile it.

23 Make a chain: for the land is full of bloody crimes, and the city is full of violence.

Ezekiel 8:And he said unto me, Go in, and behold the wicked abominations that they do here.

10 So I went in and saw; and behold every form of creeping things, and abominable beasts, and all the idols of the house of Israel, portrayed upon the wall round about…

17 Then he said unto me, Hast thou seen this, O son of man? Is it a light thing to the house of Judah that they commit the abominations which they commit here? for they have filled the land with violence, and have returned to provoke me to anger: and, lo, they put the branch to their nose.

Examples of Consequences of Rejecting God’s Word

The Word of YAH is powerful and quick. His Wisdom is immutable.

  • His Word brings results whether it is received or it is rejected.
  • Results will happen regardless.

When His Word is obeyed, it brings healing and blessing and salvation.

But when it is rejected, there are consequences and repercussions for rejecting God’s Word.

  • The Messenger of God does not NEED us to receive God’s Word.
  • The Messenger of God needs to OBEY God’s Word and DELIVER it faithfully.
  • We NEED to receive God’s Word for OUR OWN BENEFIT.

We also need to receive Yah’s Word IN HIS TIMING. Timing is a factor in the Kingdom of God.

His Word has the power to shift times and seasons so His Word IS THE ALARM clock that we must wake up and move to.

  • When His Word is Spoken – That’s When it’s Time to Obey it!
  • His Word IS the seed that comes to Bear Fruit IN ITS SEASON!

Do NOT miss the TIME of your visitation!

Examples of Consequences for Rejecting God’s Word and Prophetic Timing in the Time of Judgement:

Amos 5:10 They hate him that rebuketh in the gate, and they abhor him that speaketh uprightly.
11 Forasmuch therefore as your treading is upon the poor, and ye take from him burdens of wheat: ye have built houses of hewn stone, but ye shall not dwell in them; ye have planted pleasant vineyards, but ye shall not drink wine of them.

– When you hate the rebuke of wisdom, you will lose the results of your work, your time, and your energy.

Isaiah 30:9 That this is a rebellious people, lying children, children that will not hear the law of the Lord:
10 Which say to the seers, See not; and to the prophets, Prophesy not unto us right things, speak unto us smooth things, prophesy deceits:
11 Get you out of the way, turn aside out of the path, cause the Holy One of Israel to cease from before us.
12 Wherefore thus saith the Holy One of Israel, Because ye despise this word, and trust in oppression and perverseness, and stay thereon:
13 Therefore this iniquity shall be to you as a breach ready to fall, swelling out in a high wall, whose breaking cometh suddenly at an instant.

– When you don’t want to hear the prophetic Instruction of Truth, and choose to trust in perverse smooth words, the iniquity you lean on will crumble and fall and you will fall down with it unexpectedly.

Jeremiah 11:21 Therefore thus saith the Lord of the men of Anathoth, that seek thy life, saying, Prophesy not in the name of the Lord, that thou die not by our hand:
22 Therefore thus saith the Lord of hosts, Behold, I will punish them: the young men shall die by the sword; their sons and their daughters shall die by famine:

– When you seek to shut up and destroy the prophets of God, your children will suffer from spiritual or natural warfare and spiritual or natural famine. What you sow to Yah He will eventually give it to your children.

Amos 2:11 And I raised up of your sons for prophets, and of your young men for Nazarites. Is it not even thus, O ye children of Israel? saith the Lord.
12 But ye gave the Nazarites wine to drink; and commanded the prophets, saying, Prophesy not.
13 Behold, I am pressed under you, as a cart is pressed that is full of sheaves.
14 Therefore the flight shall perish from the swift, and the strong shall not strengthen his force, neither shall the mighty deliver himself:

– When you teach your children to reject a fasted lifestyle and reject their hard prophetic words (spiritual warfare and protection), your physically strong men won’t be able to fight or protect you either.

Amos 7:16 Now therefore hear thou the word of the Lord: Thou sayest, Prophesy not against Israel, and drop not thy word against the house of Isaac.
17 Therefore thus saith the Lord; Thy wife shall be an harlot in the city, and thy sons and thy daughters shall fall by the sword, and thy land shall be divided by line; and thou shalt die in a polluted land: and Israel shall surely go into captivity forth of his land.

– When you try to shut God’s prophets up and try to steal God’s people and land from Him… Your spouse and children will be stolen from you, and you will lose your inheritance also.

Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.

– When you reject the law of God, your children will suffer loss in their relationship with God. They won’t know Him because they weren’t taught to fear Him.

Luke 11:19 And if I by Beelzebub cast out devils, by whom do your sons cast them out? therefore shall they be your judges.

– If someone is challenging, confronting, and casting out devils and principalities by the Word of the Lord and you blame it on the devil, your children and your disciples will not be able to handle those same devils or principalities. The failure of your children and disciples will demonstrate your error to you.

Luke 10:8 And into whatsoever city ye enter, and they receive you, eat such things as are set before you: 9 and heal the sick that are therein, and say unto them, The kingdom of God is come nigh unto you. 10 But into whatsoever city ye enter, and they receive you not, go your ways out into the streets of the same, and say, 11 Even the very dust of your city, which cleaveth on us, we do wipe off against you: notwithstanding be ye sure of this, that the kingdom of God is come nigh unto you. 12 But I say unto you, that it shall be more tolerable in that day for Sodom, than for that city.

– Cities and people groups that reject the Word of the Lord thru the Apostles of Yashua will be judged worse than Sodom and Gomorrha. Why? Because they have rejected more authoritative and complete messengers than the ones sent to Sodom and Gomorrah.
Galatians 6:6 Let him that is TAUGHT IN THE WORD communicate unto him that teacheth in all good things.
7 Be not deceived; GOD IS NOT MOCKED: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that SOWETH TO THE SPIRIT shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

– When you reject teaching of the Word and choose to entertain your flesh, your soul will be corrupted by what you put into it.

From the logic of these examples I hope you can understand that these Judgments and Warnings are SIMPLE DESCRIPTIONS OF SPIRITUAL LAWS that show how THE WORLD HAS BEEN DESIGNED BY THE MOST HIGH.

Telling someone the spiritual laws that they are activating with their disobedient actions is not a curse. It’s an OPPORTUNITY to repent and do right!🙏🏽




Because iniquity shall abound, the Love of many shall wax cold. – Jesus.

What is Love?

Contrary to popular opinion, Yah’s definition of Mercy/Love is not based on emotion. The Hebrew definition of Love is simply “Covenant Faithfulness.” Faithfulness to a covenant.

What is a Covenant?

It is an agreement or commitment made with our mouth (See Foundational Understanding of Covenant).

What is Faithfulness?

Faithfulness is the lack of a difference between what we do and what comes out of our mouths. We should do what we say. Mouth – Actions = Zero.

What is Iniquity?

It’s when something in our heart or soul is not equal. It is unstable because it is not what YAH designed it to be. It’s a glitch in our spiritual software.

Iniquity (in-equity) is the opposite of Integrity.

Integrity is when our heart and soul is balanced, solid, and equal. We are faithful to the words of our mouth, which are based on the solid Truth of God’s Law and Design.

Our hearts and souls must be made complete with integrity in order to walk in covenant faithfulness – which IS LOVE.

Why is this important? The first covenant that every human literally comes out of is the covenant between our father and mother.

Sometimes there is no covenant, and the relationship is based on iniquity (in-equity). Sometimes the integrity of the covenant is broken by the violence of divorce (Malachi 2:16).

Jesus was talking about the last days when He said: “MANY shall be offended, and shall BETRAY one another, and shall HATE one another. And many FALSE PROPHETS shall arise, and shall DECEIVE MANY. And because INIQUITY shall abound, the LOVE of many shall wax cold. But he that shall endure to the end, the same shall be saved.” Matthew 24:10-13

When we are surrounded by iniquities (in-equities), broken covenants, unfaithfulness, and a lack of integrity… sometimes we can allow it to affect us.

In this wicked and adulterous generation, we live in an evil time of lies, sorcery, theft, murder, and fornication.

Lies are being pushed, promoted, and published by every level of government, media, and society. Iniquity, hypocrisy, injustice, and adultery is being displayed on every screen.

PLEASE don’t let your Covenant Faithfulness (the Integrity of your Mouth and Actions) aka LOVE grow cold in this evil time.

Today’s abundant INIQUITIES have us scared to even TOUCH each other at times… so you can imagine how hard it is be faithful in COVENANT LOVE to one another.

Love hurts, love takes courage, and a true friend is Faithful to speak the truth instead of lying (Proverbs 27:6).

Don’t let this evil time make your heart grow cold towards REAL LOVE.

Don’t let the broken Covenant of your father and mother continue to break the integrity of your soul.

Be healed and made whole by your Father in Heaven!

With His strength, you CAN keep your promises and your integrity.

Your Father in Heaven will NEVER leave you or forsake you.

He is faithful when we are not faithful. He cannot deny Himself (2 Timothy 2:13).

So with His strength, you will stay FAITHFUL in LOVE to the promises you made to Him, to your spouse, to your family, and to the people He placed in your life.

Malachi 4: Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.


Malachi 4: Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.

Fathers, the number one way to turn your heart to your children is to love their mother.

Their mother is half-of them… so by loving their mother you give them the opportunity to see themselves as worthy of love. You give them self-worth.

It’s common knowledge that when parents are divorced, the children are more tempted towards violence and sexual sin.

Multiple examples in Genesis show that sexual sin leads to more violence and more sexual sin in the next generations. The first person in the Scriptures with two wives was the 2nd murderer in Scripture:

Genesis 4: 23 And Lamech said unto his wives, Adah and Zillah, Hear my voice; ye wives of Lamech, hearken unto my speech: for I have slain a man to my wounding, and a young man to my hurt.

That’s how we know that Genesis 6:1-4 is not about fallen angels – it’s about fallen HUMANS with unbridled lust and violence, which creates fatherless children with desires to be greater than others (giants/superstars). Then generation after generation continues in violence and in lust (see the link to Fallen Angels or Sexual Sin).

If I reject my children’s mother, I’m partly rejecting them. This could causes them to reject any fatherly wisdom from me… it can also cause them to lack confidence in who they are and how they are made.

Take basketball for example: if I teach my sons and correct them on how to shoot or dribble, do they see it as competition or as me helping them be better? They are not threatened by my correction because I am their father. They know I’m trying to help them be better than me one day.

But if I reject them, they will feel threatened, and they will learn to respond to threats with violence. Simple and fun things in life can turn into brutal competition and wrath when there are deficiencies in our souls. If you’ve ever seen guys cuss each other out at a basketball court you know what I’m talking about.

Take my daughters for example. If I tell them they are beautiful, do they take it as if I’m lusting after them? No, because they know that I love their mother. I am complementing them in purity, therefore their beauty is pure.

But if I reject them, they will have a desire to be lusted after, which will lead them into vanity and seduction. Their beauty will be weaponized against others and eventually against their own selves. We see the results of this every day in modern culture.

Fatherlessness causes us to constantly feel competition and rejection – even where there is none… we must be healed by our Father in Heaven!

Sometimes our iniquities come from a lack of self-worth from our fathers:

  • Our anger and wrath can come from seeing correction as a form of competition or rejection instead of love.
  • Our pride and vanity is our way of overcompensating for a lack of confidence.
  • Our lust and gluttony is overcompensating for the way we devalue our bodies.
  • Our fear and doubt can come from how we don’t think we deserve protection or reward.
  • Our rebellion and bitterness can come from feeling like we are on our own with no one to provide for us.

We tend to use these iniquities to overcompensate for the holes we have in our heart.

We choose our deceptions according to our deficiencies. INIQUITY (in-equity) is the opposite of INTEGRITY.

If you have a low self-worth or confidence because of your father’s separation from your mother, please know that you have a Father in heaven who loves you!

You are not deficient in anything! Your Father in heaven has given you everything you need and He will never leave you. You are complete in Him!

Jesus came to reveal ABBA Father to the Jews that thought they already knew Him – but they didn’t. Once you have seen Jesus, you have seen the Father!

The Father and the Son have an unbroken covenant, and when you join into covenant Christ, you can be made whole, full, complete, mature, with INTEGRITY, and with no deficiencies.

Say it with me: “I am NOT deficient in ANYTHING, I am COMPLETE in Christ!

Speak it. Believe it. Do it! You will be made WHOLE!

Father to the Fatherless: RESTORE YOUR 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦✊🏾👨‍👩‍👦‍👦KINGDOM FAMILY!

One of the most popular blogs on is “3 Different Types of Church Hurt.”

Many people have suffered from abuse and false doctrine from so-called “spiritual fathers” (which is not even a biblical concept). In Matthew 23:9 Jesus instructed us to “call no man on earth your father, for One is your Father, even your Father in Heaven.”

However, no matter what you’ve suffered, YAH will always lead you to good godly counsel, Elders in the Faith, and a New Kingdom Family of Doers of the Word! He will lead you to faithfulness and accountability, making disciples and co-laboring in the gospel with a team of believers in New Covenant Order.

Your Father in Heaven will Give You a New Kingdom FAMILY:


When you have had a father that is not abusive but compassionate, you learn a healthy attitude towards correction.

You realize that correction is for your own good. You may even get to the point where you ask for and desire correction as a form of help for you to accomplish God’s will in your life.

However when you have not had these things due to an abusive or absent father, you might tend to fall into more emotion-based communication patterns and an unhealthy attitude towards Order, Structure, and Correction.

Order & Structure feels like abuse & manipulation to those who’ve never had Healthy, Loving, & Fruitful Order & Structure.

· Rebellion and Independence is not freedom…its bondage. Wise Boundaries and Logical Integrity (building up your thoughts on obeying what God says) create true Freedom.

· When we are not comfortable with Godly Authority, Healthy Accountability, and Structural Order – we need to check our character, and your heart. Ask God to mend your heart and restore what’s missing.

· The worst lies that we can tell are the lies we tell our own selves. If we love to see and hear religious entertainment but aren’t doing the Word of God – we are our own biggest deceivers (James 1:22).

· If you are seeking after more and more knowledge, but not seeking after OBEYING what you already know – check your soul. Something more important than knowledge is missing from your heart.

· A lack of integrity leads us right into deception and strong delusion when we are “ever learning, but never coming into the knowledge of the truth.”

We may need healing. We may need deliverance. Our Father in heaven can freely give us both!

We also need to get FAMILY-AR with our Father’s House Rules and our Father’s Family Culture!

Forgive those that have wronged you so that your Father in heaven can forgive you too for what you’ve done wrong (Matthew 6:15). Then repent for your own rebellion against His Wisdom.

Your Father in Heaven will put you in a family, and place your family in a called out, New Covenant Ecclesia (Congregation, Assembly) that will simply do His will and obey His Commandments and His Son’s Commandments.

  • You will learn how to Worship the Father in Spirit AND in Truth.
  • You will gain eternal fruit and rewards on Earth AND in HEAVEN.

Psalm 68:6 God setteth the solitary in families: he bringeth out those which are bound with chains: but the rebellious dwell in a dry land.

Revelation 14:12 Here is the patience of the SAINTS: here are they that keep the commandments of God, and the faith of Jesus.

Heart Checks: Iniquity vs Integrity

We choose our deceptions according to our deficiencies.

The day we stop lying to our own souls is the day we become free from deception and iniquities in our souls.

Iniquity (in-equity) is the opposite of Integrity.

Our hearts and souls must be made complete (whole, solid, balanced, integritous) in order to walk in covenant faithfulness (LOVE).

Heart Checks: How to Check the Balance of Integrity in Your Heart

You remember that one thing you know God wants you to do, but you know it will hurt your pride? If you do it quickly, He will lift you up quickly! Please obey today🙏🏽

You remember that one promise you didn’t keep? It’s not too late to either keep it, or be humble and apologize. You will be happier afterwards…please do one or the other