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Fathers Set Boundaries and Responsibilities

Fathers know our design; they show us our gifts and talents. A father is the first authority in your life to give you a role and a responsibility according to your gift, talent, and place in a group. He does this in the family household, which should be the first and safest place for you to learn how to think and act.

When a healthy father does this for you, it’s not based on manipulation; it’s based on design. It’s not a form of abuse, it’s giving you the right opportunity you need to grow.

A healthy father does not cross your boundaries – he sets boundaries for you and makes sure no one on the PLANET crosses them without dealing with him!

In a perfect world, our earthly father should be someone who shows us a similar love to our Father in Heaven.

But when you don’t have the blessing of an earthly father, or if you have an abusive or emotionally manipulative father – you don’t learn how to properly relate to authority.

Sexually abusive, emotionally absent, or cowardly absent fathers can cause much harm to the development of innocent children. This can affect how we respond to heavenly authority, and the normal relationships we operate within our everyday life:

• When we don’t honor our Creator, we rebel against our design.
• When we don’t obey our King, we don’t understand our role.
• When we have been abused or lied to by evil authority, we lose trust in all
  authority, and we learn to rebel against responsibility.

We now have a whole generation of people in rebellion against their own design, choosing homosexuality, lesbianism, unclean sexuality, abortion, birth control, etc.

Our brokenness has created a whole generation in rebellion against their natural roles and responsibilities.

Isaiah 24:5 The earth also is defiled under the inhabitants thereof; because they have transgressed the laws, changed the ordinance, broken the everlasting covenant.

Un-Boundaried Childhoods have adversely affected our:

• Manhoods
• Womanhoods
• Husbandhoods
• Wifehoods
• Fatherhoods
• Motherhoods
  

Relationships are hard and boundaries are easily crossed because few people understand their roles or responsibilities. Instead of faithful communication and faithful action, our relationships are full of miscommunications, misunderstandings, rebellion, and manipulation.  

Then we feel condemned, manipulated, afraid, and intimidated by the simple acts of service and obedience that we are responsible for based on our design and our role.

This affects us in our jobs, our worship, our friendships… Some of us see our simple human roles and responsibilities as manipulation and abuse because someone has crossed our boundaries or abused us in the past:

• Some men don’t want to be men, and be responsible servant leaders.
• Some women don’t want to be women, and be a help and support.
• Some Pastors don’t want to teach, they want to be entertainers.
• Some saints don’t want to be sheep, they want to be wolf puppies.
• Some Public servants don’t want to serve, they want to enrich themselves by stealing.
• Some citizens don’t want to obey the law, they want to violate the property of others.
  
  

Our boundaries have been crossed so much, we have learned to respond by rebelling against all common decency and order.

HURT AND POWER-HUNGRY SOULS

Violence, rebellion, seduction, and witchcraft have become the hottest commodities for a generation of hurting and fatherless children that feel like those are the only ways they can gain the power to protect themselves!

The popular trends of people seeking after witchcraft power, violent power, rebellious power, seductive sexual power, and magic energy comes from a generation that has been so abused that they feel powerless! Their boundaries have been crossed. This is so sad; it can make us feel like there is no hope.

RESTORATION IS COMING!

But there is a God that is coming to RESTORE ALL THINGS! He will set boundaries that cannot be crossed. When Jesus returns to set things in order, all flesh will see the glory of YAHUAH!

He will set such a good example of righteousness and faithfulness that even the beasts of the field won’t dare cross any boundaries with any violence!

Children will be protected by the glory and the fear of YAH rising across the whole earth:

Isaiah 11: ⁵ And righteousness shall be the girdle of his loins, and faithfulness the girdle of his reins.  ⁶ The wolf also shall dwell with the lamb, and the leopard shall lie down with the kid; and the calf and the young lion and the fatling together; and a little child shall lead them. ⁷ And the cow and the bear shall feed; their young ones shall lie down together: and the lion shall eat straw like the ox. ⁸ And the sucking child shall play on the hole of the asp, and the weaned child shall put his hand on the cockatrice’ den. ⁹ They shall not hurt nor destroy in all my holy mountain: for the earth shall be full of the knowledge of the Lord, as the waters cover the sea.

• Wolves will dwell with lambs, and won’t eat them.
• Leopards will lie down with goats, and won’t touch them.
• Lions will dwell with cattle, without a threat.
• Children will hang out with animals and be responsible for guiding them through the fields to eat.
• Cows and bears will feed together peacefully.
• Lions will eat straw just like oxen.
• Little toddler children will play in holes of snakes and poisonous spiders without being threatened.
• When God’s judgements are in the earth, no one, not even an animal will think about hurting another soul.

This is the beautiful news of the Gospel of Jesus’s Kingdom!

As we embrace repentance to Yahuah’s 10 Commandments in the Spirit of Elijah, our prayer is that many hearts will be healed, restored, and knit back together.

As we rebuild the Tabernacle of David so we can Ascend His Holy Mountain, we are working to be an example of the peace and safety that can only be found in His presence.

When we return to our original designs in our families and in our congregations as His children, our ABBA Father will set us in our proper roles and responsibilities in the Family of God.

The GOSPEL, the COMMANDMENTS, and the ORDINANCES of Jesus Christ will provide us with the LIGHT, the BLUEPRINT, and the WAY to the Complete Restoration of All Things!

NO MORE EXCUSES!

JESUS PROVIDES Salvation, Forgiveness, Healing, Repentance, Deliverance, Maturity, Fruitfulness, Prosperity, Strength thru Suffering, and Grace thru Persecution.

There are NO MORE excuses for us! We can no longer blame parents, grandparents, abusers, liars, and people who crossed our boundaries for the choices we make today!

There is a day of JUDGEMENT COMING SOON when we will pay for our words and actions and lack of obedience in fulfilling our responsibilities towards the Most High God!

If fathers don’t turn their hearts to the children, and children turn their hearts back to the fathers, God will come and curse the earth (Malachi 4:6).

But if fathers turn their hearts back to children, and the disobedient turn back to the wisdom of the just, the spirit of Elijah will Restore ALL Things, and we will be prepared to see the Lord and King Jesus Christ Return to the Earth and bring His Peace (Luke 1:17).

Call out to your Father in Heaven TODAY, and contact us if you need to walk through receiving Salvation, Healing, Deliverance, or Discipleship!

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