Beautiful Women & Rich Men are NOT Marriage Material

Beautiful Women and Rich Men are NOT Marriage Material:

MEN: Beautiful women are a dime a dozen. Find yourself a wife who is scared of God’s judgements and LISTENS.

Proverbs 31:30

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

WOMEN: Men that can make money are everywhere. Wait for a husband who is scared of God’s judgements and LISTENS.

Isaiah 33:6

And wisdom and knowledge shall be the stability of thy times, and strength of salvation: the fear of the Lord is his treasure.

Sometimes you don’t have to hunt, just wake up

Unmarried men that are looking for a wife… sometimes you don’t have to look so hard, when its God’s timing all you have to do is wake up and God will bring your wife right to your feet.

Adam woke up. Boaz woke up. Isaac got up. God brought their wives right to them. Sometimes you don’t have to hunt so hard; you just have to be about God’s business, work hard, rest, and wake up to your blessing.

God’s Plan for Saving the World

Gods Plan::: When you are unmarried: serve the Lord and save the world. When you are married: please your wife and save your children. 

If you are married and you are still trying to save the world: you will LOSE the world or LOSE your soul and LOSE your children. 

But if you please your wife and save your children, your children will save the world 20 times faster than you ever could have. (1 Cor 7, Psalm 127, Malachi 2)

8 Drastic options better than divorce, which is not an option

8 drastic options better than divorce

1. – prayer and fasting for a new heart in your spouse or in yourself
2. – prayer and the Word together
3. – counseling together with father & mother in law (if they are wise)
4. – counseling together with father and mother (if they are wise)
5. – learning the Word from a teacher of the Word together or individually
6. – calling the police if there is abuse (if your spouse is a criminal, please call the police)
7. – getting advice from a wise counselor together
8. – separation for an agreed upon period of time

Jesus said that the law of Moses allowed divorce for the hardness of their hearts. So wherever you see rampant hard heartedness, you will see divorce. Jesus taught “from the beginning” aka god’s original purpose, and he taught a doctrine that is higher than the law of Moses.

Divorce or Divorce & Remarriage is not an option if you want to please God. Gods mercy is new every morning so there’s no need for condemnation, but whatever has happened in the past: just walk in truth today. God can forgive and cleanse your past. You cannot change your past, but you definitely have a drastic need to use repentance and the grace of God to change your future. Be willing to do whatever God tells you to do.

Mark 10
“And he arose from thence, and cometh into the coasts of Judaea by the farther side of Jordan: and the people resort unto him again; and, as he was wont, he taught them again.
And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.
And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you?
And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away.
And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept.
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter.
And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.”

Why does it say in Matthew “except for fornication?”

Because Matthew was written specifically for the Jewish audience. In the Law of Moses, a marriage could be ended a day after the wedding night if it was found out that the woman was not a virgin BEFORE she got married. (Fornication is sex BEFORE marriage, adultery is sex outside of marriage, after marriage). Mark and Luke do not contain this caveat, because it was written to Gentile believers.

Update: I put this teaching out ony blog back in April. I did not realize how important this doctrine was until I talked to a friend a couple days ago from who had a similar teaching on his blog. We live in two different states, and have different circles. We both got really strange responses to our teachings about divorce.

Do you realize that there are people who search the Internet for God’s teaching on divorce, and then make up stories and send them questions to put doubt and fear into the people that teach it? What could be their motivation for doing this? Maybe because satan realizes that God’s teaching on covenant love is the key to revival?

The Glory of Children are their Fathers

The glory of children are their fathers… Mothers if you really love your children the best thing you can do for them is to lift up their father and help him to be the best he can be in anyway you can.

Proverbs 17:6
Children’s children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers.

Spiritual Retardation Among MEN

Men of God:

Our Father in Heaven has called us to build our lives and our houses on the solid Rock of His Word – and then when the wind and rain and storms come , we can take it and still stand.

He did not tell us to try and build a glass bubble around our house and field so that we never feel a raindrop or any windstorms. If you wait until you get your glass bubble up you will end up with nothing.

Spiritual Retardation is an abnormal delay of progress in development of your obedience to God’s Word.

Don’t be a spiritual retard concerning your purpose, or your work, or your ministry, or your wife, or your children. Find Gods written logos Word on it, Seek Him for a direct rhema Word on it, then JUST DO IT!

Seek God for your purpose – do it.
Seek God for your family – run it.

Matthew 7
24 “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. 27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”

Matthew 4
4 Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”

You Can NEVER Escape Obedience to GOD – An Intro to Spiritual Retardation

The only way to escape obedience is with disobedience and punishment.

You can NEVER escape God’s character-building processes through work, through family, or through ministry.

Spiritual Retardation is more than ignorance (even though they go hand in hand). Spiritual retardation is to refuse spiritual maturity or advancement in obedience thru suffering, and to choose disobedience and avoid suffering instead:

Being lazy and resisting work is a sign of spiritual retardation.

Resisting God’s purpose and plan for family and resisting nature and natural roles is a sign of spiritual retardation.

Resisting Gods high call on your life or ministry is a sign of spiritual retardation.

Hebrews 5:8
8 Though he [Jesus Christ] were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered;

If Jesus learned obedience thru suffering, how much more should we?

Disobedience and Ignorance go hand in hand. It’s like the old question – which came first, the chicken or the egg?

We are disobedient because of ignorance, and we are ignorant because of disobedience – because God pours out His Spirit and reveals His knowledge to those who obey His reproof (Proverbs 1:23).

When you delay obedience and refuse to advance to the stage you are supposed to be in, your spiritual progress becomes retarded.

Consistently avoiding obedience, suffering and maturity leads to more opportunities for obedience, suffering and maturity. So you never really escape Gods process of obedience anyway. Then in the end, disobedience leads to punishment You might as well obey Him at every stage, suffer temporarily, and be blessed with JOY!