Q: What do we do as believers when the person we love don’t know or love GOD or Jesus like we do but the relationship seems okay other than the basic relationship ups and downs ? Are we settling ? Are we lukewarm in our belief or can we actually bring that person to Christ ? How much is too much when it comes to staying with a person who doesnt share the same faith , is love really just love are we suppose to stay or leave ? Would this relationship be considered an idol ?

A: If you’re not married, there’s no covenant, so cut it off. It’s too difficult to have a God-pleasing relationship both in the natural and in the spiritual if you are not married, and especially if one of you is not a mature Christian.

Women cannot change men when they disobey the Lord by having an unequally yoked relationship. If you’re not married, the relationship is definitely an idol.

Marriage is so much more than talk and relationship. It’s covenant and vision, and war against the devil. You can’t play games and a woman can’t disciple a man in life. You can pray for him but you can’t lead him or rule over him.

If it’s Gods Plan, God will save him. Leave him alone until God brings a man worthy to lead you that you are willing to obey and follow in everyday life.

2 Corinthians 6: 14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.
18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.

If you are married, stay faithful, submissive, and love the Lord in front of them. If you have a covenant, you might be able to save them.

Covenant trumps everything, and the marriage covenant is until death. If they are willing to stay with you… you can help save their life! And your children will be blessed if you remain obedient to your husband and in fellowship with God, keeping His commandments.

1 Corinthians 7:13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

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