Fatherless Millenials Need Healing

Healing & Deliverance go Hand in Hand because those with the strongest devils often had the biggest and earliest childhood wounds.

A fatherless generation needs healing.

Many in our generation have let our desire to be different overrule our desire to be obedient.

Fatherlessness has eroded the confidence of many, and they lack the motivation to obey the wisdom of the Father in Heaven.

We need healing in our hearts and deliverance from the demons that have infested our media & entertainment. Only then will we be free to obey.

Fatherlessness, Competition, and Rejection

My heart hurts for the grown but still wounded from fatherlessness. Your Father in Heaven can heal you!

Fatherlessness causes you to constantly feel competition and rejection – even where there is none…Let this year be your year of HEALING as you connect with your Father in HEAVEN. Only God can heal our souls… #healing #compassion #fatherofspirits

You cannot argue, debate, or teach a spirit of confusion off of someone who suffered TRAUMA and needs HEALING.

coming from Fatherlessness into Balance

A fatherless or father-wounded generation finds it difficult to balance freedom with discipline.

This lack of true fatherhood is something that is a huge opportunity for healing and deliverance. It’s very necessary to get to the next level in our maturity as disciplined disciples of One Master with One Father in Heaven.

Don’t flee from the Lies of abuse & oppression to run to the Lies of lawlessness & disorder. Both sides are based on LIES!

He’s a Good Good Father.

His Commandments are Not Grievous.

You cannot argue, debate, or teach a spirit of confusion off of someone who suffered TRAUMA and needs HEALING.

My heart hurts for the grown but still wounded from fatherlessness. Your Father in Heaven can heal you!

Religion versus Relationship Cop Out

There is a generation that won’t forgive their real parents but will chase after fake parents.

There is a generation that thinks its woke and clean but its still filthy and dead in sin.

There is a generation that despises holiness and humility, but loves to roam free and be sexy.

There is a generation that hates purity, order, Gods Ways, and God’s Laws. But they love their own ideas, talents, and brands.

Proverbs 30:11 There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.
12 There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.
13 There is a generation, O how lofty are their eyes! and their eyelids are lifted up.
14 There is a generation, whose teeth are as swords, and their jaw teeth as knives, to devour the poor from off the earth, and the needy from among men.

James 1:27 Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.

His Holy Habitation: God Protects the Weak in His Order

The Most High is the greatest defender of the weak. But He does it in His Holiness and in His Order (His Holy Habitation).

If you want His protection, respect His Way.

Psalms 68:5 A father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows, is God in his holy habitation.
– God uses good fathers and husbands to protect women and children from abusers and predators.
– God uses caring fathers and brothers to protect women from abusive men or husbands.
– God uses good shepherds (elders) and overseers to protect His people against spiritual wolves, false apostles, and abusive pastors.
– God uses righteous preachers to protect people against abusive governments by preaching the gospel, and preaching God’s judgement.
– God uses governments to protect citizens against criminals and domestic abusers.

– God sends bigger governments to bring down oppressive governments.

God cares for everyone.
However, we cannot live in rebellion against the authorities that God Himself has sent to protect us, and then complain to God about not protecting us. The rebellious will dwell in a dry land.
Psalms 68

6 God setteth the solitary in FAMILIES: he bringeth OUT those which are BOUND with chains: but the REBELLIOUS dwell in a dry land.

Discipline is the Way of the Kingdom

When the power of God is working for you, the ONLY thing that can stop you is your own lack of discipline.

Without the boredom of discipline, you will never experience the excitement of success.

A fatherless generation despises discipline with their hearts, but craves discipline with their lives.
God is returning the hearts of the fathers to their children, and returning the disobedient to the wisdom of the just.

Stay away from undisciplined people. They brag about their freedom now, but 20 years from now they will wish they had restricted themselves to God’s Commands!

The reason our flesh gravitates towards easy ministries based on performance art, social media, chat groups, entertainment, marketing, and stage shows is because real kingdom “discipleship” includes “discipline.” Our flesh loathes discipline.

But Yashua still says: Go, preach, teach, and make disciplined people that do all my commandments.

My Generation is Fighting Back

Satan had a plan for our generation but I see us fighting back in Christ. I’m excited about what the faithful saints are doing. Don’t get it twisted, there are some in my generation that are doing it big for Jesus.

– I’m excited about the men I know that are working jobs and providing for their families, leading their families in righteousness with no fear and not trying to get rich or chase stages…
– I’m excited about the women I know that are honoring their husbands and raising their children, presenting their bodies as a living sacrifice not for vain appearances or fake reality shows…
– I’m excited about those I know who have been abandoned by their spouses, but are still rejecting remarriage and adultery simply because Jesus commanded them to…
– I’m excited about those that I’ve counseled who are in tough marriages that are walking in forgiveness and refusing to give up on their covenant before God…
– I’m excited about the good and faithful servants I serve with that are living the truth out shamelessly and being a faithful witness of the Word even though the scorners crack jokes about them…
– I’m excited about those I know that are serving the poor, fatherless and widow daily and are not trying to fit in with the worldly, but are choosing to stay unspotted from the world.
These are the things that will change our future – our obedience and purity in Christ – not the fame or the fortune & destiny. There are a few good things happening among the saints of the Most High. We don’t need the crowd or a majority. A few of us walking in obedience + God is an automatic majority and we win.

Be CONTENT with Food and Clothing

The first key to biblical prosperity: be content with food and clothing.

“I am content with food and clothing!”

1 Timothy 6:8
And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.

God makes sure that husbands can provide their wives and children with food and clothing.

Exodus 21:10
If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.

If there is no father in the home, God sends compassionate people to make sure that they have food and clothing.

Deuteronomy 10:18
he doth execute the judgment of the fatherless and widow, and loveth the stranger, in giving him food and raiment.

2nd key to biblical prosperity is working diligently, 3rd key is prudence and avoiding debt and covetousness. 4th is doing what God has called you to do.

Turning the Fatherless into Disciples by Adoption

God loves children and He is a father to the fatherless thru us. It’s a blessing not only to receive children thru our own marriages, but to also turn the fatherless into disciples by adoption.

Women & Men: Raise Your Standard

Women & Men: Raise Your Standard

A couple of weeks ago I shared a facebook status that really hit a nerve for a lot of people, so I want to expand on it.

Women: if you raise your standard, men will see it and mature themselves to it. The longer you talk to and put up with/immature, half-boyish game players, the worse it gets for you… Men too: Raise the standard!

Men are leaders but women have great influence. Most women receive foolishness ONLY because they tolerate it. They tolerate it either because they are foolish themselves and don’t listen to God, or because they don’t have a good father to see as an example, and so they don’t know the standard.

I’m not saying this to bash women; I need to raise standards in my life too. Godly Men need to raise their standards and refuse to tolerate things. But guess what… what women reward is what some men will aspire to. The more idiot women reward “players” and “boyfriends” with sex and attention… the more idiot players and boyfriends that we will have to deal with in this world.

High Standards actually Create what they Expect!

Women, this standard is NOT “I’m only marrying a millionaire,” or with anything having to do with your lust, your flesh, or your pride. The standard has to do with character. Does he fear God? Is he in control of his sexual desire? Think about this: if he will sin against God for you, then someday he will sin against you for someone else. If he is ruled by his penis then he is not a man yet.

The standard is not about $30,000 in the bank and a big house. I’ve been rich and I’ve been poor… but I always know how to work. Yes, marriage is a NATURAL thing, and money is necessary. Men, here are the questions you need to answer:

Have you found the work that you love to do?
Do you spend 6 days a week doing it?

I’m going to say that again:

Have you FOUND…
the WORK…
that you LOVE to do? That God BUILT you to do?

Do you SPEND SIX DAYS A WEEK doing that work?

If you have found the work you love to do that means you are connected with the gifts and talents that God has built inside of you. That’s not limited to a job. It’s a gift; it’s a talent, its something that you can do anywhere. But you can do it at your job.

If you spend 6 days a week doing that work; that means you have conquered your lazy flesh and you are not wasting your life playing games.

If you can answer those two questions correctly: MONEY IS NOT A PROBLEM.

If you do those two things, money will come to you. The only thing you have to do is learn how to save it. Money is not a problem, if you don’t give it away like an idiot. (I’ve been an idiot several times in my life, so I feel you if you are an idiot. You can easily get better).

But back to my point: The Standard is High, but it’s NOT Unattainable.
Character and Work Ethic is it.

Women: don’t tolerate anything less. The next time an idiot in the street says “Hey girl can I have your number?” Give him a gospel tract and don’t talk to him. The next time some church boy comes to you trying to be your “boyfriend.” Tell him that you are looking for a husband-man, not a boy. Don’t accept any words from him until he grows up and comes correct.

Men: Raise your standard, get into God, get into your work, and stop playing games!

If this weren’t a necessary message, you would not have enjoyed reading it. Let’s be the generation to break the curses!

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