SPEAKING OR PRAYING IN TONGUES? #TOLD

SPEAKING OR PRAYING IN TONGUES?
#TOLD
TRUTH OVER LIES DAILY

Q: I have two questions: Is speaking in tongues and praying in tongues different things? Is praying in the Holy Spirit synonymous to praying in tongues?

A: First question: Yes, depending on who you are talking to.

If you are talking to God it’s considered PRAYING.

If you are talking to people then you should make sure there is an interpretation to what you are SPEAKING so that people can understand what the Spirit is SPEAKING.

Speaking in Tongues to People (known languages): Acts 2:4, 1 Corinthians 12:10

Speaking in Tongues (unknown languages): 1 Corinthians 13:1, 1 Corinthians 14:2

Praying in Tongues to God (unknown languages): 1 Corinthians 14:2, 1 Corinthians 14:28

1 Corinthians 14:2 For he that speaketh in an unknown tongue speaketh not unto men, but unto God: for no man understandeth him; howbeit in the spirit he speaketh mysteries.

1 Corinthians 14:28 But if there be no interpreter, let him keep silence in the church; and let him speak to himself, and to God.

Second question: Yes, Apostles Paul and Apostle Jude use “praying with the Spirit” and “praying in the Holy Ghost” synonymously with “praying in tongues.”

Praying or Singing in the Spirit and Praying in the Holy Ghost is Praying in Tongues (unknown languages): 1 Corinthians 14:14-16, Jude 20

1 Corinthians 14:14 For if I pray in an unknown tongue, my spirit prayeth, but my understanding is unfruitful.
15 What is it then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will pray with the understanding also: I will sing with the spirit, and I will sing with the understanding also.

Jude 20 But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost,

Jezebel Wants to Destroy your Marriage

Esosa: Shereena, Can you please focus on cooking before you do other things today?

Shereena: No, I am really busy today and I have too much to do.

Esosa: Well, I think getting the meals done is the most important thing, because it helps us save time during the week.

Shereena: Well, I will do my best. Cooking takes all day and I don’t know if I will have time.

The dialogue above seems like a normal conversation between a husband and wife. But if you really think about what took place in the conversation it is not. My husband made a request of me, and I blew it off. Putting my to do list above what he desired of me. In a seemingly insignificant way, I exerted my will above his. No yelling or screaming or cussing at him, but disobedience to my husband non-the-less.

You may be thinking that what transpired in the conversation was no big deal. But if you think about it more deeply, it was a display of disorder in my heart. If I truly, in my inner man believed that my husband was the God appointed leader in my life, I would have a much higher value on his desires and executing his requests.

As a wife, my husband’s requests should be top of my list. But it has not always been that way.

At the beginning of my marriage I believed all the things you are supposed to believe as a Christian wife. I believed that my husband was the head of our home, I tried to walk that out even in our courtship and wedding planning, following his lead even when it was not what I wanted. I believed that I was to obey and submit to him. I believed that Christ was the head of man and man the head of the woman. I believed all of those things. Or so I thought. Once we were married, and the wedding, and celebrating was over… it was harder than I thought it would be to LIVE the reality of my husband being my head.

Many things he said I would agree with and go with. But there were many times when I did not. I thought that as long as I stated my opinion in a calm way, that was ok. Going against what he said, constantly stating my opinion in most decisions he made. Pushing to get my way. But obedience is not what you say, it is what is in your heart.

Obedience is a heart issue. Even God acknowledges that in the book of Matthew when he said “This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me” (Matt. 15:8). In my heart most times I wanted my way. Even times when I did go along with what he wanted, my heart was not in it.

This is disorder. Disorder in how God created husbands and wives to function together in a Godly marriage. Disorder can be a very subtle thing. Disoder is not always overt with constant yelling, fighting and disrespect. Dis·or·der /ˌdisˈôrdər/ noun~ a state of confusion. Disorder is simply a state of confusion. Confusion. That is exactly what was happening in our marriage a lot of times. Confusion.

Having a clear leader eliminates confusion. One person leading, casting vision and giving orders. Everyone else playing their role in supporting the vision with the gifts, talents and abilities God has given them. Following the leader. Does that mean the leader is always right, no. But in a marriage the husband has the God given role to lead. Having a clear designated leader decreases confusion in the family.

The marriage of Jezebel and Ahab was the epitome of disorder. She. Was. The. Head. PERIOD!

Ahab followed her idolatry even though He was KING over the chosen people of the ONLY LIVING GOD. She made the decisions, she was the spiritual leader with the prophets of Baal under her command. She solved Ahab’s problems. She was the man. (Her story begins in 1 Kings 16)

Ladies, ask yourself, what kind of husband do you want? A strong man, who is capable of making decisions and taking responsibility? A man who is a leader in the kingdom of God? Who has attained the qualifications of an elder (Titus 1:5-9), who is known when he sits among the leaders (Proverbs 31:23)? A man who is respected in your house, on his job, in the congregation? Any Godly woman would desire this. And it takes a woman who understands order to build this.

A wise woman builds her house (Proverbs 14:1). Give your husband courage to grow in his leadership, praying him into his role, encouraging him in his role, teaching the children about his role so they respect him and honor him.

Don’t take advantage of his weak areas as an opportunity to take control. Rather, pray for him and ask God to teach you how to encourage his leadership in areas he is weak. Seek order woman of God.

The end of the reign of Jezebel and the house of Jezebel was dismal. You cannot bear Godly seed, and have a Godly home without God’s order. He won’t allow it. Taking the lead from your husband could ruin your marriage without you even realizing what happened.

Many men feel discouraged by their wives, but don’t say it. Many men feel disrespected but don’t say it. Many men feel run over by their wives but don’t say it. If a man cannot fulfill his role he feels useless, and this leads to a lot of divorces. And sometimes, he will never say it. I have had several dreams in which men were crying and longing for order and fruitfulness in their homes.

The spirit of Jezebel is thriving in the churches, and men don’t feel like they even have room to communicate their need for respect. There is such a high expectation for equality, and he may feel like a chauvinist for expressing his need to lead in his home.

Some men may stay and endure feeling disrespected in a marriage, but they may check out mentally. This is the reason many men are not heavily involved with their children, they know that their wife will second guess any decision they try to make concerning them. This is a reason some men don’t initiate a lot of things in their relationship with their wife, they know that she will shoot down almost any suggestion he tries to make.

If you notice your husband is withdrawn in any area of your family life, pray and ask God to show you why, ask him if he feels like you respect him, and let him express his heart without getting defensive, without bringing up his mistakes… just listen. Take his response humbly and begin your journey of becoming a respectful obedient wife, with a meek and quiet spirit (1 Peter 3:1-6).

Our role is to support our husbands in prayer as they lead. Forgiving their mistakes, praying for God to light their path and give them hearts to obey Him as they lead the family. Giving advice when appropriate, asking God for opportunity and proper timing to discuss concerns we have, and obeying not just with your mouth but in your heart. What good is it woman if you say yes Sir when your husband asks you to do something or makes a decision, but in your heart you are against him? Draw nigh to God’s order in your heart woman of God.

RISE UP woman of God, follow God’s order and submit to your husband, not just with your mouth, but in your heart. This is one of the main things you can do to bless your household and put glory on your children. Oh, woman don’t you know… the glory of children are their fathers (Proverbs 17:6)!

Prayer: God, I repent to you for operating in the spirit of jezebel against my husband. I repent God for being rebellious against you and the order you have set. My husband is my head and the leader, I am to submit to him. God I repent for being difficult for you and my husband to lead, please forgive me for being contrary and moving against my husband and the work you have for him to do. I release to you the spirit of Jezebel, the spirit of rebellion, and the spirit of witchcraft.

Please cultivate within me a meek and quiet spirit, let the law of kindness be in my mouth, and help me fall in line with the order you have set. You are the head of man, and man is the head of the woman. God, please bless my husband to follow you and be obedient to you in all things. Give him power, love and a sound mind, help him make the right decisions for our family both naturally and spiritually. Get the glory in our family God, and help us to be pleasing to you. God deliver us from the spirit of Jezebel in every way. In Jesus mighty name, Amen.

Debating & Arguing vs Deliverance & Healing

Don’t Waste Your Life
🗣Debating and 🤜🏾Arguing with People that really Need Deliverance🙏🏾 and Healing ❤

A spirit of error can be detected logically, but it must be discerned and addressed spiritually.

These 2 things Do not Respond to Logic:
Demons & Devils🧟‍♂️
Pains & Traumas💔

MANIFEST POWER💪🏾, COMPASSION❤, AND FRUIT🍇🍎🥝🍋🍌🍐🍑🍒🍓🍍🥑🥥🍅THOSE THAT LISTEN WILL SAVE THEMSELVES!

CURSED BY NOT TITHING? #TOLD

CURSED BY NOT TITHING?
#TOLD
TRUTH OVER LIES DAILY

Q: Why do pastors teach that you will be cursed if you don’t tithe using the very Scriptures that commanded Israel to tithe but will not use the Scriptures regarding the Sabbath/Feast days that were also commanded of Israel? The feast and sabbaths were also introduced in Creation (Genesis).

A: I don’t curse people, but sometimes a curse is just a lack of execution of purpose, which leads to detrimental things… which is what I believe Malachi was speaking of. Sometimes you have to warn people of the results of their actions.

Here’s another warning of a similar curse:

Proverbs 28:27 He that giveth unto the poor shall not lack: but he that hideth his eyes shall have many a curse.

The Creation Sabbath is eternal law from Genesis. The ceremonial Sabbaths and Feasts are different, they came after Moses, for separation of Israel to bring forth Christ the Messiah.

Not all law is the same. Context clues tend to show which law Paul is speaking of:

For example, circumcision is not required in the New Covenant because we have exceeded it with Circumcision of the Heart in Christ.

However “thou shalt not lie” is still moral law, part of the 10 Commandments which is the Testimony of YAHUAH.

Christ is prophesied all over the OT. The ceremonial Sabbaths and feasts are shadow of Christ.

When we come into the actual Body of Christ, we no longer need holidays to be holy because we are filled with the Holy Spirit.

However, the Creation Sabbath is a part of the 10 Commandments (Moral Law), the eternal testimony of YAHUAH.

So the feasts are NOT a part of Creation Law because they were given to Moses for the purpose of setting Israel apart to bring forth the Messiah.

So back to the curse on Jerusalem:

Hosea 2:11 I will also cause all her mirth to cease, her feast days, her new moons, and her sabbaths, and all her solemn feasts.

That is the prophecy that confirmed the feasts of Jerusalem to cease when it was destroyed in 70 A.D. When Messiah came he confirmed that also. This is why Jerusalem is currently under Gentile control.

However when it comes to natural law (such as the tithe), curses are mainly based on the lack of obedience.

For example in Nehemiah 13 there’s another example of Israel being reprimanded because they weren’t supporting the Levites but were instead giving the portion of the Levites to foreign businessmen. That was a curse because they weren’t fulfilling the purpose of their priesthood.

They had the Levites working in the fields, but gave their spiritual enemy (Tobias) a chamber in the house of God. This is part of what Jesus meant by making a house of prayer into a den of thieves.

If you are called to build a priesthood and you don’t build it, you will lack the benefits of a priesthood, which will be a curse. This is what Malachi was explaining to Israel.

If you don’t build a house, you won’t have a house.
If you don’t grow food, you won’t have food.
If you don’t study and work diligently, you won’t have wealth.

Natural law and Wisdom law aka Creation Law can usually explain things as cause & effect. You can see this all over Proverbs. Sowing and Reaping. Input leads to Output. Creation Law is very logical.

The tithe, firstfruits, and offerings are not necessarily “heaven & hell” type curses, but simply tools to build a priesthood on earth. If you choose not to build it, you won’t have it.

Again I don’t believe in cursing people but just in explaining how God designed the earth to work. God has eternal “wisdom laws” and design principles that cover nature, agriculture, finance, engineering, as well as how to link our natural work to our spiritual worship through giving.

There’s a similar scripture in Galatians.

Galatians 6:6 Let him that is taught in the word communicate unto him that teacheth in all good things. 7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

God will only allow you to reap from what you sow into. Casinos, Bars, Entertainment, Clubs, Movies, Corrupt businesses, Corrupt politics, even Corrupt churches… everybody gets some type of investment.

This is not necessarily cursing people but just explaining to them how God designed things to work so that they have awareness and then they can make the investments that they want to make.

For more explanation:
GENTILES TITHING? #TOLD
https://sospression.com/2020/06/18/gentiles-tithing-told/
RIGHTLY DIVIDING THE LAW
https://sospression.com/2019/09/03/rightly-dividing-the-law/
613 LAWS SHAKY EXCUSE
https://sospression.com/2019/11/29/613-laws-shaky-excuse/
WISDOM CRIES OUT
https://sospression.com/2019/09/07/wisdom-cries-out-the-benefits-of-creation-law/

GENTILES TITHING? #TOLD

GENTILES TITHING?
#TOLD
TRUTH OVER LIES DAILY

Q: If Gentiles are not required to keep the law (feasts/sabbaths) then why are they required to keep the law (tithes)?

A: The ceremonial feasts and ceremonial sabbaths, and circumcision are all laws that were designed to divide Jews from Gentiles. The New Covenant is clear that those laws are optional.

It’s not a sin to keep our eyes on Yah’s calendar even while we live in the Antichrist system that has changed the calendar. The feasts are not sins to remember and do as a memorial.

However according to Hosea 2:11 the authority of the ceremonial feasts and extra sabbaths have ceased with the destruction of Jerusalem in 70 A.D. Also read Colossians 2, Romans 2, and Acts 15.

Hosea 2:11 I will also cause all her mirth to cease, her feast days, her new moons, and her sabbaths, and all her solemn feasts.

Ceremonial laws are not critical to salvation. Why? Because YAH’s expressed prophetic purpose was to Unite Jews with Gentiles under Messiah Yahshuah. Ceremonial and cultural division is no longer His agenda.

In the New Covenant we use the Holy Spirit to make us holy, we don’t need holidays to make us holy. That’s how we have exceeded the righteousness of the Pharisees.

Law of Liberty and Royal Law
Moral laws (Ten Commandments) are eternal and they represent YAHUAH’s Authority of LOVE and Mercy. The Grace of Yashuah’s sacrifice gives us our Salvation and the Power we need to submit to YAH’s Authority and Moral Law (aka Law of Liberty, aka 10 Commandments.]

The 10 Commandments are actually the Father’s Will and Testament, and His Tables of Testimony are in heaven right now (Exodus 31:18, Revelation 11:19).

The 10 can also be summarized in the Royal Law of King Jesus, which summarizes the 10. The Greatest Commandment is to Love God with Everything which is reflected in Commandments 1-5. The 2nd Greatest Commandment is to Love your Neighbor As Yourself which is reflected in Commandments 6-10. The Father and the Son are ONE, and they are in complete agreement.

However Creation Principles (Laws) and Wisdom Principles (Laws) are different. They were established at Creation and they don’t change. Pork is still unclean. Shrimp is still a bottom feeder. Seed time and Harvest, Cold and heat shall not cease.

So when it comes to His Creation Principles: it’s not a matter of if the “law” as a “requirement”. It’s a matter of if you are smart enough to use Gods Principles to your own advantage and fruitfulness in your own life.

If you want apples, you use God’s Creation Wisdom and put an apple seed in the dirt. If you don’t want to grow apples, then you don’t. It’s not a “requirement” – it’s based on your own level of wisdom and energy.

Builders build using the wisdom principles (tools) of building. Engineers build cars and planes according to the God’s wisdom and principles of physics. Agriculturers produce food using the wisdom principles (tools) that God created.

Isaiah 28: 24 Doth the plowman plow all day to sow? doth he open and break the clods of his ground?
25 When he hath made plain the face thereof, doth he not cast abroad the fitches, and scatter the cummin, and cast in the principal wheat and the appointed barley and the rie in their place?
26 For his GOD DOTH INSTRUCT HIM to DISCRETION, and DOTH TEACH HIM.
27 For the fitches are not threshed with a threshing instrument, neither is a cart wheel turned about upon the cummin; but the fitches are beaten out with a staff, and the cummin with a rod.
28 Bread corn is bruised; because he will not ever be threshing it, nor break it with the wheel of his cart, nor bruise it with his horsemen.
29 This also cometh forth FROM THE LORD of hosts, which is WONDERFUL IN COUNSEL, and EXCELLENT IN WORKING.

YAHUAH is in charge of all natural wisdom, because He is the Creator and Designer of all things, and He understands strategy and counsel in how to do Excellent Work.

If God give you wisdom on how to build a garden, and you use the tools He gave you to do it, then you can get the rewards of it. If God gives you the wisdom to build a house, and you use the tools He gave you to do it, then you get the benefits of building a house.

The tithe, firstfruits, and offerings are similar. They are simply tools that wise people use to build what they want to see in the earth.

If you want to see a Priesthood that is teaching the Word of God, Preaching the Gospel to All Nations, Ministering True Worship to the Most High, and Giving to the Poor, then you use the tools that God gave us to build up that Priesthood.

Tithing is a Creation principle (law) that connects our work on earth to the Priesthood of heaven. It’s not an issue of salvation. You only do it if you want to see the benefits of it.

If you don’t want the fruit, don’t plant the seed. If you don’t want to build up an Assembly (priesthood) of the Most High, then don’t build it.

A lot of people have been wounded spiritually because they tithed to an entertainment, or commerce, or tradition based ministry that taught lies… or that they later found out was greedy and wasn’t ministering to the poor. My prayer is that those people become healed and build or find a balanced and true Ecclessia that they can build with.

RIGHTLY DIVIDING THE LAW
https://sospression.com/2019/09/03/rightly-dividing-the-law/
613 LAWS SHAKY EXCUSE
https://sospression.com/2019/11/29/613-laws-shaky-excuse/
WISDOM CRIES OUT
https://sospression.com/2019/09/07/wisdom-cries-out-the-benefits-of-creation-law/

JESUS IS A ROCK OF OFFENSE

JESUS IS A ROCK OF OFFENSE

Did you know that JESUS IS OFFENSIVE?

One of the Names of Jesus is: “Rock of Offense.”

No matter how much you love Him, Jesus will always be a “ROCK OF OFFENSE.”

Jesus Offends People! He is Offensive to every soul under heaven.

If you are a representative of Jesus you have to understand this. The more you serve Him the more you will offend people.

You don’t have to be mean on purpose (and you shouldn’t) but the Rock of Offense is going to be offensive simply because His Ways are not our ways, and His Thoughts are not our thoughts.

You can love people, be kind, be nice, serve them, save lives, give tangibly, etc… however the deeper Truths About Jesus [His Status, His Gospel, His Commandments, His Ordinances] and what He demands will always Offend People.

❤❤SOFT HEARTS vs HARD HEARTS 🖤🖤

Some People Respond to the Rock of Offense with SOFT HEARTS.❤❤❤

They end up Believing and Obeying the ROCK OF OFFENSE, and they are not ashamed:

Romans 9:33 As it is written, Behold, I lay in Sion a stumblingstone and rock of offence: and whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed.

Some People Respond to the Rock of Offense with HARD HEARTS.🖤🖤🖤

They stiffen up their necks and trip over the ROCK OF OFFENSE, and they strengthen themselves in their disobedience:

1 Peter 2:8 And a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offence, even to them which stumble at the word, being disobedient: whereunto also they were appointed.

How Will You Respond to the ROCK OF OFFENSE?

The more I serve Him the more I’m offended. He literally wants to rule everything!

But eventually He will rule everything. Over the years I’ve learned how to change my response to His offensiveness.

I’ve tried to soften my heart and keep choosing obedience to His Commandments.

YOU WILL BE BROKEN!

If you listen to the Rock (Christ) of the Word of God in your heart without getting offended, you will be broken and saved.

If you get offended by the Rock (Christ) the Word of God and rebel against it, it will break you and destroy you.

Matthew 21:44 And whosoever shall fall on this stone shall be broken: but on whomsoever it shall fall, it will grind him to powder.

Romans 9:33 As it is written, Behold, I lay in Sion a stumblingstone and rock of offence: and whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed.

Matthew 7:21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven... 23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

You can say you LOVE Jesus but you don’t even KNOW Jesus if you ignore His Word or His Father’s Word.
🔟👑📖

IS THIS REALLY MY HUSBAND? #TOLD

IS THIS REALLY MY HUSBAND?
#TOLD
TRUTH OVER LIES DAILY

Q: What would be evidence that the husband was not the wife’s own husband to begin with even though they both agreed as formal order of marriage covenant?

A: There is no evidence that a one-flesh covenant between 2 unmarried people is not valid in God’s eyes. Marriage is a Creation ordinance, not Mosaic or New covenant. Man is made in God’s image so a man’s marriage Covenant between a woman has to be upheld and not discarded.

If you married him/her, then they are your spouse. Unless they were already married and their spouse is still alive, or they are your mother, or they are a horse, or they are the same sex as you, or any other abomination. Those are not real marriages, they are sins or abominations.

One-flesh covenant marriage is when an unmarried male and an unmarried female make a public covenant with their mouths – God sees it and holds them to it.

Proverbs 6:2 Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou art taken with the words of thy mouth.

Genesis 2: 23 And Adam SAID, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. 24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be ONE FLESH.

Ecclesiastes 5:4 When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. 5 Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay. 6 Suffer not thy mouth to cause thy flesh to sin; neither say thou before the angel, that it was an error: wherefore should God be angry at thy voice, and DESTROY the work of thine hands?

God has a right to be angry and destroy the work of people that speak promises before Him and don’t keep them.

If Covenant marriages were only valid between Christians in the perfect will of God, the John the Baptist would not have told Herod “It is not lawful for you to have her!” Herod wasn’t even a Jew let alone a Believer. John the Baptist went back to Creation Law. Whenever Jesus taught on Marriage, He went back to Creation, “from the beginning.”

WAS MY MARRIAGE ORDAINED?
https://sospression.com/2020/06/12/was-my-marriage-ordained-told/

HOMOSEXUAL DIVORCE?
https://sospression.com/2020/06/04/homosexual-divorce-told/

FOUNDATIONAL UNDERSTANDING OF COVENANT
https://sospression.com/2019/12/15/foundational-understanding-of-covenant/

Jesus Was an Unarmed Black Man

Roman Soldiers Lynching Black Jews on Trees until They Can’t Breathe has been going on for a long long time Roman Empire, Roman Catholic Inquisition, TransAtlantic Slave Kidnappers, US Cotton Economy, Southern Reconstruction/Jim Crow KKK, Police War on Drugs… these are all Roman Soldiers].

But Don’t Worry Judgement is coming. The Lion of the Tribe of Judah has PREVAILED!

YOU JUST MAKE SURE YOU KEEP THE COMMANDMENTS OF GOD AND THE FAITH OF JESUS!

SAVE YOURSELF FROM HIS WRATH.
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WHAT IF MY HUSBAND CAN’T LEAD? #TOLD

WHAT IF MY HUSBAND CAN’T LEAD?
#TOLD
TRUTH OVER LIES DAILY

Q: Would it be considered “unequally yoked” for a husband to lead with fear of the unknown and fear of failure and say it is from God and it goes against the continued still small voice-Holy Spirit speaking to the wife? What about for the husband to manipulate his wife and others as a form of leadership?

A: Praying for your husband is very powerful. Submitting to your husband is also powerful. The husband is ultimately responsible and he is the one who will be judged for what goes on in the household. So that’s why the bible instructs wives to obey their husbands, calling him “Lord” aka “Ruler.”

Wives are called to submit to their husbands without fear and terror, trusting that God will speak to their husbands and restore any mistakes that he may make.

1 Peter 3:6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.

Order is based on position, not on talent/intelligence. You may be smarter than your boss at work, but you still follow their instruction.

The Scriptures always give instructions in the right order. If you look at Ephesians 5 and Colossians 3, you’ll see the order of obedience:

Wives Obey Husbands, then Husbands Love Wives without Bitterness.

Children Obey Parents, then Fathers don’t Provoke wrath in your children.

Employees Obey Bosses, then Bosses pay fair and treat Equal.

The bible never demonstrates women submitting to their husbands only if their husbands are great leaders. The Scriptures demonstrate that wise women obey their husbands and help them learn to lead by being submissive (easy to lead), allowing themselves to be led and praying for them along the way. Foolish husbands are punished by God, not by their wives.

Abigail tried her best to submit to and help her husband even though he was a bonafide fool. God rewarded her when Nabal got killed and made her the wife to King David.

Sara followed Abraham even when he was making leadership mistakes, and eventually he became the father of faith.

A wise woman will submit to her husband’s leadership development in every area except violating the 10 Commandments. She will pray, obey and support her covenant husband until he becomes the king God made him to be. Then they will inherit the grace of life together.

If you have made mistakes in this area you can repent and keep his commandments, God can restore your marriage, or He can make you fruitful in other ways.

Fire From Heaven

Dream: God’s Wrath
12/22/19
I dreamed I saw a news reporter standing in front of a camera on a city street with a blue barricade around him. He was sarcastically reporting on the “uprise of the Hebrews”, or something concerning Hebrews, very mockingly and condescendingly.

Then as he was reporting thousands or millions of people from every nation
started running. There was a stampede of people from every nation, including brown/black skinned people. They were running from the wrath of God, God was angry about how Hebrews had been treated across the earth, and He was about to pour out His wrath. But there were Hebrews running too, and I was shocked and surprised to see blacks and Africans running from the judgement of God just like everyone else – even though the judgement was coming for how they had been treated.
The news reporter got knocked down in all the commotion. A huge, slow moving, brewing storm of fire had come down from the sky. When the fire
touched down, I heard and saw a great explosion of fire.

Joel 3 King James Version (KJV)

For, behold, in those days, and in that time, when I shall bring again the captivity of Judah and Jerusalem,

I will also gather all nations, and will bring them down into the valley of Jehoshaphat, and will plead with them there for my people and for my heritage Israel, whom they have scattered among the nations, and parted my land.

And they have cast lots for my people; and have given a boy for an harlot, and sold a girl for wine, that they might drink.

Yea, and what have ye to do with me, O Tyre, and Zidon, and all the coasts of Palestine? will ye render me a recompence? and if ye recompense me, swiftly and speedily will I return your recompence upon your own head;

Because ye have taken my silver and my gold, and have carried into your temples my goodly pleasant things:

The children also of Judah and the children of Jerusalem have ye sold unto the Grecians, that ye might remove them far from their border.

Behold, I will raise them out of the place whither ye have sold them, and will return your recompence upon your own head:

And I will sell your sons and your daughters into the hand of the children of Judah, and they shall sell them to the Sabeans, to a people far off: for the Lord hath spoken it.

Proclaim ye this among the Gentiles; Prepare war, wake up the mighty men, let all the men of war draw near; let them come up:

10 Beat your plowshares into swords and your pruninghooks into spears: let the weak say, I am strong.

11 Assemble yourselves, and come, all ye heathen, and gather yourselves together round about: thither cause thy mighty ones to come down, O Lord.

12 Let the heathen be wakened, and come up to the valley of Jehoshaphat: for there will I sit to judge all the heathen round about.

13 Put ye in the sickle, for the harvest is ripe: come, get you down; for the press is full, the fats overflow; for their wickedness is great.

14 Multitudes, multitudes in the valley of decision: for the day of the Lord is near in the valley of decision.

15 The sun and the moon shall be darkened, and the stars shall withdraw their shining.

16 The Lord also shall roar out of Zion, and utter his voice from Jerusalem; and the heavens and the earth shall shake: but the Lord will be the hope of his people, and the strength of the children of Israel.

17 So shall ye know that I am the Lord your God dwelling in Zion, my holy mountain: then shall Jerusalem be holy, and there shall no strangers pass through her any more.

18 And it shall come to pass in that day, that the mountains shall drop down new wine, and the hills shall flow with milk, and all the rivers of Judah shall flow with waters, and a fountain shall come forth out of the house of the Lord, and shall water the valley of Shittim.

19 Egypt shall be a desolation, and Edom shall be a desolate wilderness, for the violence against the children of Judah, because they have shed innocent blood in their land.

20 But Judah shall dwell for ever, and Jerusalem from generation to generation.

21 For I will cleanse their blood that I have not cleansed: for the Lord dwelleth in Zion.