Because iniquity shall abound, the Love of many shall wax cold. – Jesus.

What is Love?

Contrary to popular opinion, Yah’s definition of Mercy/Love is not based on emotion. The Hebrew definition of Love is simply “Covenant Faithfulness.” Faithfulness to a covenant.

What is a Covenant?

It is an agreement or commitment made with our mouth (See Foundational Understanding of Covenant).

What is Faithfulness?

Faithfulness is the lack of a difference between what we do and what comes out of our mouths. We should do what we say. Mouth – Actions = Zero.

What is Iniquity?

It’s when something in our heart or soul is not equal. It is unstable because it is not what YAH designed it to be. It’s a glitch in our spiritual software.

Iniquity (in-equity) is the opposite of Integrity.

Integrity is when our heart and soul is balanced, solid, and equal. We are faithful to the words of our mouth, which are based on the solid Truth of God’s Law and Design.

Our hearts and souls must be made complete with integrity in order to walk in covenant faithfulness – which IS LOVE.

Why is this important? The first covenant that every human literally comes out of is the covenant between our father and mother.

Sometimes there is no covenant, and the relationship is based on iniquity (in-equity). Sometimes the integrity of the covenant is broken by the violence of divorce (Malachi 2:16).

Jesus was talking about the last days when He said: “MANY shall be offended, and shall BETRAY one another, and shall HATE one another. And many FALSE PROPHETS shall arise, and shall DECEIVE MANY. And because INIQUITY shall abound, the LOVE of many shall wax cold. But he that shall endure to the end, the same shall be saved.” Matthew 24:10-13

When we are surrounded by iniquities (in-equities), broken covenants, unfaithfulness, and a lack of integrity… sometimes we can allow it to affect us.

In this wicked and adulterous generation, we live in an evil time of lies, sorcery, theft, murder, and fornication.

Lies are being pushed, promoted, and published by every level of government, media, and society. Iniquity, hypocrisy, injustice, and adultery is being displayed on every screen.

PLEASE don’t let your Covenant Faithfulness (the Integrity of your Mouth and Actions) aka LOVE grow cold in this evil time.

Today’s abundant INIQUITIES have us scared to even TOUCH each other at times… so you can imagine how hard it is be faithful in COVENANT LOVE to one another.

Love hurts, love takes courage, and a true friend is Faithful to speak the truth instead of lying (Proverbs 27:6).

Don’t let this evil time make your heart grow cold towards REAL LOVE.

Don’t let the broken Covenant of your father and mother continue to break the integrity of your soul.

Be healed and made whole by your Father in Heaven!

With His strength, you CAN keep your promises and your integrity.

Your Father in Heaven will NEVER leave you or forsake you.

He is faithful when we are not faithful. He cannot deny Himself (2 Timothy 2:13).

So with His strength, you will stay FAITHFUL in LOVE to the promises you made to Him, to your spouse, to your family, and to the people He placed in your life.

Malachi 4: Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.


Malachi 4: Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.

Fathers, the number one way to turn your heart to your children is to love their mother.

Their mother is half-of them… so by loving their mother you give them the opportunity to see themselves as worthy of love. You give them self-worth.

It’s common knowledge that when parents are divorced, the children are more tempted towards violence and sexual sin.

Multiple examples in Genesis show that sexual sin leads to more violence and more sexual sin in the next generations. The first person in the Scriptures with two wives was the 2nd murderer in Scripture:

Genesis 4: 23 And Lamech said unto his wives, Adah and Zillah, Hear my voice; ye wives of Lamech, hearken unto my speech: for I have slain a man to my wounding, and a young man to my hurt.

That’s how we know that Genesis 6:1-4 is not about fallen angels – it’s about fallen HUMANS with unbridled lust and violence, which creates fatherless children with desires to be greater than others (giants/superstars). Then generation after generation continues in violence and in lust (see the link to Fallen Angels or Sexual Sin).

If I reject my children’s mother, I’m partly rejecting them. This could causes them to reject any fatherly wisdom from me… it can also cause them to lack confidence in who they are and how they are made.

Take basketball for example: if I teach my sons and correct them on how to shoot or dribble, do they see it as competition or as me helping them be better? They are not threatened by my correction because I am their father. They know I’m trying to help them be better than me one day.

But if I reject them, they will feel threatened, and they will learn to respond to threats with violence. Simple and fun things in life can turn into brutal competition and wrath when there are deficiencies in our souls. If you’ve ever seen guys cuss each other out at a basketball court you know what I’m talking about.

Take my daughters for example. If I tell them they are beautiful, do they take it as if I’m lusting after them? No, because they know that I love their mother. I am complementing them in purity, therefore their beauty is pure.

But if I reject them, they will have a desire to be lusted after, which will lead them into vanity and seduction. Their beauty will be weaponized against others and eventually against their own selves. We see the results of this every day in modern culture.

Fatherlessness causes us to constantly feel competition and rejection – even where there is none… we must be healed by our Father in Heaven!

Sometimes our iniquities come from a lack of self-worth from our fathers:

  • Our anger and wrath can come from seeing correction as a form of competition or rejection instead of love.
  • Our pride and vanity is our way of overcompensating for a lack of confidence.
  • Our lust and gluttony is overcompensating for the way we devalue our bodies.
  • Our fear and doubt can come from how we don’t think we deserve protection or reward.
  • Our rebellion and bitterness can come from feeling like we are on our own with no one to provide for us.

We tend to use these iniquities to overcompensate for the holes we have in our heart.

We choose our deceptions according to our deficiencies. INIQUITY (in-equity) is the opposite of INTEGRITY.

If you have a low self-worth or confidence because of your father’s separation from your mother, please know that you have a Father in heaven who loves you!

You are not deficient in anything! Your Father in heaven has given you everything you need and He will never leave you. You are complete in Him!

Jesus came to reveal ABBA Father to the Jews that thought they already knew Him – but they didn’t. Once you have seen Jesus, you have seen the Father!

The Father and the Son have an unbroken covenant, and when you join into covenant Christ, you can be made whole, full, complete, mature, with INTEGRITY, and with no deficiencies.

Say it with me: “I am NOT deficient in ANYTHING, I am COMPLETE in Christ!

Speak it. Believe it. Do it! You will be made WHOLE!

Father to the Fatherless: RESTORE YOUR 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦✊🏾👨‍👩‍👦‍👦KINGDOM FAMILY!

One of the most popular blogs on sospression.com is “3 Different Types of Church Hurt.”

Many people have suffered from abuse and false doctrine from so-called “spiritual fathers” (which is not even a biblical concept). In Matthew 23:9 Jesus instructed us to “call no man on earth your father, for One is your Father, even your Father in Heaven.”

However, no matter what you’ve suffered, YAH will always lead you to good godly counsel, Elders in the Faith, and a New Kingdom Family of Doers of the Word! He will lead you to faithfulness and accountability, making disciples and co-laboring in the gospel with a team of believers in New Covenant Order.

Your Father in Heaven will Give You a New Kingdom FAMILY:


When you have had a father that is not abusive but compassionate, you learn a healthy attitude towards correction.

You realize that correction is for your own good. You may even get to the point where you ask for and desire correction as a form of help for you to accomplish God’s will in your life.

However when you have not had these things due to an abusive or absent father, you might tend to fall into more emotion-based communication patterns and an unhealthy attitude towards Order, Structure, and Correction.

Order & Structure feels like abuse & manipulation to those who’ve never had Healthy, Loving, & Fruitful Order & Structure.

· Rebellion and Independence is not freedom…its bondage. Wise Boundaries and Logical Integrity (building up your thoughts on obeying what God says) create true Freedom.

· When we are not comfortable with Godly Authority, Healthy Accountability, and Structural Order – we need to check our character, and your heart. Ask God to mend your heart and restore what’s missing.

· The worst lies that we can tell are the lies we tell our own selves. If we love to see and hear religious entertainment but aren’t doing the Word of God – we are our own biggest deceivers (James 1:22).

· If you are seeking after more and more knowledge, but not seeking after OBEYING what you already know – check your soul. Something more important than knowledge is missing from your heart.

· A lack of integrity leads us right into deception and strong delusion when we are “ever learning, but never coming into the knowledge of the truth.”

We may need healing. We may need deliverance. Our Father in heaven can freely give us both!

We also need to get FAMILY-AR with our Father’s House Rules and our Father’s Family Culture!

Forgive those that have wronged you so that your Father in heaven can forgive you too for what you’ve done wrong (Matthew 6:15). Then repent for your own rebellion against His Wisdom.

Your Father in Heaven will put you in a family, and place your family in a called out, New Covenant Ecclesia (Congregation, Assembly) that will simply do His will and obey His Commandments and His Son’s Commandments.

  • You will learn how to Worship the Father in Spirit AND in Truth.
  • You will gain eternal fruit and rewards on Earth AND in HEAVEN.

Psalm 68:6 God setteth the solitary in families: he bringeth out those which are bound with chains: but the rebellious dwell in a dry land.

Revelation 14:12 Here is the patience of the SAINTS: here are they that keep the commandments of God, and the faith of Jesus.

Iniquity vs Integrity

We choose our deceptions according to our deficiencies.

Iniquity (in-equity) is the opposite of Integrity.

Our hearts and souls must be made complete (whole, solid, integritous) in order to walk in covenant faithfulness (LOVE).

Walk with YAH and BE PERFECT

Being PERFECT (Mature, Complete, Sound, Integritous, Fully Grown) doesn’t mean everything always goes right.

It means you know how to use every tool you need to win the fight.

Matthew 5:48 Be ye therefore PERFECT, even as your Father which is in heaven is PERFECT.

Mental Health for Yah’s Servants: Let Go and Let God.

Mental Health for Yah’s Servants: sometimes it’s okay to take a break praying for people and just focus 100% on Worshipping the Most High and Singing Praises!

Let Him do what He’s gonna do! Take a Praise Break!

Jeremiah 7:16
Therefore pray not thou for this people, neither lift up cry nor prayer for them, neither make intercession to me: for I will not hear thee.

All souls are His. He will take care of them.

He will bless those who have been obedient, and punish those who have disobedient.

There will be a time to let go and let YAH handle His business:

Revelation 22:11
He that is UNJUST, let him be unjust still: and he which is FILTHY, let him be filthy still: and he that is RIGHTEOUS, let him be righteous still: and he that is HOLY, let him be holy still.

It’s not our job to change unjust people. It’s not our job to clean up filthy people. It’s God’s job. We need to be Righteous and Holy by example.

Sometimes our only other job is to Praise His Name and Release His Glory into the Earth!

Praise is a lifestyle – but it’s also a WEAPON and a way to REST!

Take a Praise Break!

Psalm 149:3 Let them praise his name in the dance: let them sing praises unto him with the timbrel and harp.

4 For the Lord taketh pleasure in his people: HE WILL BEAUTIFY THE MEEK WITH SALVATION.

5 Let the saints be JOYFUL IN GLORY: let them sing aloud UPON THEIR BEDS.

6 Let the high praises of God be in their mouth, and a two-edged sword in their hand;




Q: Question. What laws do we follow??

A: 10 Commandments go hand in hand with the two Great Commandments- Love God, Love People.

So if you Love God and Love People you will automatically guard, protect and cherish the 10 (Law of Liberty).

Creation/Wisdom laws are for those that want to be productive and successful in God’s Creation.

Everything else is covered by the following Law of the Spirit of Life in Christ Jesus.

Another way to think about law is to switch it with the Word “Authority.”

– Whose Authority are you under?

– Whose jurisdiction do you fall under?

That will help us understanding the Laws of God.





A fatherless or father-wounded generation finds it difficult to balance freedom with discipline.

It’s very necessary to get to the next level in our maturity as DISCIPLINED disciples of One Master with One Father in Heaven.

Many of us have been abused by Authority to the point where we see even Godly healthy authority as a threat to our freedom.

Don’t flee from the Lies of abuse & oppression to run to the Lies of lawlessness & disorder.

Rebellion seems like freedom until your REAL enemy shows up!

God can protect you when you submit to His Order.

He’s a Good Good Father! His Commandments are Not Grievous. They are for our PROTECTION.

Psalms 68:5 A father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows, is God IN HIS holy habitation.

– God uses good fathers and husbands to protect women and children from abusers and predators.
– God uses caring fathers and brothers to protect women from abusive men or husbands.
– God uses good shepherds (elders) and overseers to protect His people against spiritual wolves, false apostles, and abusive pastors.
– God uses righteous preachers to protect people against abusive governments by preaching the gospel and preaching God’s judgement.
– God uses governments to protect citizens against criminals and domestic abusers.
– God sends bigger governments to bring down oppressive governments.

God cares for everyone!

However, we cannot live in rebellion against the authorities that God Himself has sent to protect us, and then complain to God about not protecting us. The rebellious will dwell in a dry land.

Psalms 68:6 God setteth the solitary in FAMILIES: he bringeth OUT those which are BOUND with chains: but the REBELLIOUS dwell in a dry land.

Patriarchy Works.

The vast majority of Fathers PROTECT their daughters, and don’t MOLEST their daughters.

For those that do: the Police and the Preacher get involved. The government bears the sword to punish evildoers. The Preacher bears the sword of the Word of God to bring conviction and repentance.

But unfortunately, this world loves DISORDER so much it sees ORDER as a Dangerous Problem.

Then it cries & complains about the Results of DISORDER.

The TEN Commandments (Law of Liberty) WORKS. It is in perfect alignment with the Spirit of the LORD! (Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is Liberty).

Rebellion Fails. The rebellious will dwell in a dry land (Psalms 68:6).

Protection comes from Protectors. This is the ONLY solution!

You may have been hurt and abused in your past… but in order to experience true healing, deliverance manifest in your life you will need to need to forgive, be healed, and rebuild your TRUST in the Protection of your Father in Heaven:

  2. Christ’s New Covenant Authority in the Gospel
  3. Manhood and Fatherhood – Family Leadership.
  4. Women and Children being cared for and protected under authority.
    (See 1 Corinthians 11:3).



#1 Most IMPORTANT Lesson in Spiritual Warfare

Most IMPORTANT Lesson in Spiritual Warfare:

YAH can only DEFEND you at the level that you OBEY HIM.

If you need more PROTECTION – become more OBEDIENT.

2 Corinthians 10:6 And having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience, WHEN YOUR OBEDIENCE IS FULFILLED.

We have a lot of people crying out to YAH but they can’t figure out how to obey Basic Sound Kingdom Doctrine, the 10 Commandments of YAH, or walk in New Covenant Order.

– How exactly you be FREE if you won’t obey the LAW OF LIBERTY (The TEN)?

– How exactly will you be PRODUCTIVE if you won’t obey the LAWS OF WISDOM?

– How exactly will you be HEALED and DELIVERED from the DEVIL while following DECEIVERS, Actors, Politicians, Social Media Influencers, and Entertainers instead of the Ministers and SERVANTS of the NEW COVENANT in Christ?


Father to the Fatherless: RESTORE YOUR 🧠📖 LOGICAL INTEGRITY!

When the Angel quoted Malachi 4:6 to John the Baptist’s father Zachariah, he switched up the terms instead of turning the hearts of children to fathers he said “Disobedient to Wisdom.”

Luke 1:17 And he shall go before him in the spirit and power of Elias, to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the DISOBEDIENT to the WISDOM of the JUST; to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.

Part of the role of a father is to give you Logical Integrity, the type of WISDOM that can ONLY come from OBEDIENCE. Once you DO His Logos (Word), you will build your Logic (thinking abilities).

The Fear of YAH is the BEGINNING of Knowledge (Proverbs 1:7). When Daddy says it, you just do it. You don’t debate with Him. You figure out why later. That’s the fear of the Lord.

In this day of strong delusion and deception it’s not intelligence but INTEGRITY and OBEDIENCE that will save your soul!

The Word of God is the Logos. Our logic should be based on the Logos, and our lives should be built on His Words – plain and simple.

The Scriptures teach that God is actually sending STRONG DELUSION to disobedient people (2 Thessalonians 2:10-13) that don’t love the truth enough to obey it.

Jesus said if you DO HIS FATHERS WILL You will know the doctrine (John 7:17). Most of your knowledge of Doctrine will come AFTER you obey it, NOT BEFORE.

We need to switch from a Greek philosopher and debater’s mindset to the Mind of Christ – the King of the Jews.

The INTEGRITY of the upright shall guide us (Proverbs 11:3). You will get the knowledge you are looking for ONLY if you have the INTEGRITY to obey.

Unfortunately due to fatherlessness and abuse, many of us have open wounds that lead to breaches in our spirit (Proverbs 15:4).

This not only opens us up to devilish influences but it also leads to breaches in our Logical Integrity – an inability to simply OBEY OUR FATHER’S WISDOM.

Those that don’t Obey the Father will never be balanced, consistent, or faithful to WISDOM. They will continue to chase knowledge, but remain unstable because of a broken soul. The spirit of confusion comes from a breach in the Spirit that turns into a breach in their logic.

Some lack the integrity to even build their doctrines and beliefs up straight. Our froward (rebellious) hearts cause us to pervert our tongues against His very Commandments!

· Why are we systematically violating our Father’s 10 Commandments (graven images, idolatry, changing the sabbath, divorce and remarriage adultery, etc…) and thinking it doesn’t matter? Especially when Yashua said we won’t get enter into heaven without doing His Fathers will (Matt 7:21-24)?

· Why are we violating His Creation law if He’s the Creator of all wisdom? Do we think we have better ideas about how the world was designed ?

· Why do we fall for deceivers, entertainers, media hypocrites, false apostles, false teachers, Judaizers, crowd chasers, vocabulary word-debaters (subverters), profane Jewish fables, extra-biblical fake books… when the SCRIPTURES CLEARLY WARN US AGAINST ALL THESE?

· Why do we buy and sell in the temples when Jesus said His Father’s house is a house of prayer?

· Why do we continue to buy and sell discipleship (classes, conferences, schools) when Jesus did not do it and the Apostles taught against it?

· Why do we ignore the Son of God Yashua’s New Covenant Order, ordinances, and apostolic authority to try to go back to the Old Covenant Ordinances when Scriptures clearly teach against it (Hebrews 8:13)?

· Why do we still have denominations and doctrinal divisions when the Scriptures have been in the common language of the people for almost 500 years now? We can’t blame the Dark Ages or Roman Catholic Church anymore!

These are just a few examples of the ways we are simply disobedient to simple wisdom. The Word of God is the Logos. Our logic should be based on the Logos, and our lives should be built on His Words – plain and simple.

Instead… we lack the Logical Integrity to simply obey God. We get tossed back and forth with strange doctrines from deceivers.

Why are we even open to these deceptions? Is the Pope now our Father? Hebrews claim Abraham as our father but if we rebel against the order of the Son then the devil is our father.

No matter how much knowledge we acquire or how many teachers and artists we heap up to our YouTube accounts: DISOBEDIENCE OPENS US UP TO DECEPTION. We somehow think that our ways are higher than His, and our thoughts are higher than His. But they’re not (Isaiah 55:9).

We were warned that the last days would be full of silly women carrying layers and layers of sin – ever learning from deceivers but never simply coming to the knowledge of truth by simply repenting, forgiving, and DOING the Word (2 Timothy 3:6).

Quick Story:

My father helped me out recently… I went over to his house to help him move a freezer and as I left I mentioned that I had ordered a solar installation to save in electricity and to avoid power outages which are common in my area. He mentioned that he had planned to do the same thing and he immediately he asked me the price. I told him.

The next day he called me the evening. He had gotten 3 different quotes that very day and told me the company I had went with was the highest by about $20,000.

He gave me the contacts and suggested i look into getting out of the contract and go with somebody else. A few weeks later I ended up doing exactly that. My father wanted me to follow a better financial process rather than get duped out of $20,000 by not doing my due diligence!

Even though I’m 40 years old my father is still helping me walk in logical integrity! I’m a grown man, and I could have been prideful and independent, but I was blessed by simply being obedient to my father’s wisdom. He helped me because he cared.

Imagine how much more important it is to be OBEDIENT to WISDOM in spiritual matters!

Luke 1:17
And he shall go before him in the spirit and power of Elias, to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the DISOBEDIENT TO THE WISDOM OF THE JUST; to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.

Even if you don’t have an earthly father, your Heavenly Father will turn your heart back to THE WISDOM OF THE JUST (those that DO HIS WORD and HIS WILL).

He will lead you to good Godly counsel, Elders in the Faith, and a New Kingdom Family of Doers of the Word!